Why are some people so closed minded?

One thing you did not mention that is important...is your current husband living with you in this arrangement? IF he is then don't pay any attention to what ignorant people say...IF he is not you can still ignore what people say but I have to say you have left yourself wide open for scrutiny if your current husband is NOT in the arrangement also. BUT I am thinking you just forgot to mention he is living with you...and for all those stone throwers who have not walked in your families shoes I say "what goes around comes around". Good luck to you and your family and I thank God a situation came to be that your family could all be back in the same state and basically same house.