Problems i want a baby?

ok everyone let me let you know something i want a baby my hubby is 41 years old hes not young he lied about his age now he lied about a vasectomy reversed so i am 20 years old and if he dosent get that thing undone in 1 year he cant get it undone it wouldnt work he said when he was young and married he got her pregnant and she didnt want kids so he got him self fixed the i came along and everytime i ask him he say i donrt want to talk about it how do i get him to open up about it we have the money to get it undone so money isnt a issue and for everyone that keeps bringing up the question i ask 2 weeks ago i started my perido